Be Hero for Autism
This is a special post about John from his sister-in-law Ivy and friend Marty. This is our final post in our Be a Hero for Autism for Autism Awareness Month and the Toys “R” Us puzzle piece campaign.
Hero of the Week: John
Autism was a word we had only heard mentioned on the news and in schools. Like many, we didn’t know much about autism and how it affected a person and those important around them. It wasn’t until John told us that his son Brandon was diagnosed with autism that we began to understand the real meaning.
John got involved with Autism Speaks Canada from the beginning of the Inaugural BC Walk in 2008. As Co-Chair of the walk, he is hands on with everything from learning more about the cause, getting family, friends and strangers involved, building partnerships with donors, organizing the walk route, supporting fundraisers, to handing out hot chocolate to the walkers. There is no task too small or too big for John, and he reminds us that the various struggles we face inside are often tackled by reaching beyond ourselves. John has taught us that being a hero is in taking responsibility to create positive social change, while being a father that faces the challenges and triumphs of having a child with ASD.
John has attended many workshops and meetings on autism to share not only his story but his love for Brandon and his family and to let others know about the trials and victories that they live through each day.
One of the many events that John organized to raise funds for Autism Speaks Canada was the “Grind for Autism”; a hike up Vancouver’s Grouse Mountain, which, for anyone has ever done it, is not an easy hike. After he made sure that everyone had their Grind for Autism shirt, thanked them for the support and told them to have a great hike John, with his 3 year old son Brandon on his back, went up the mountain as well.
John has completed the New York Marathon as part of Team Autism Speaks. He was also on a group that was invited to Washington D.C. to talk with members of Congress to push for more support with regards to research for a cure and the continued support for programs to help those with autism and their families.
Often, we hear “what does your autism look like?” For us, it looks like aunts, uncles, grandparents, sisters, brothers and friends hiking up the Grouse Grind to raise funds for education and research. It is John running across the finish line at the New York Marathon for Autism Speaks with his cell phone in hand, so his family could hear the spectators roar, not to be outdone by Brandon and his brother and sister cheering “go daddy! go daddy!” It is a picture of John holding the Autism Speaks Canada banner at the top of Mount Rainier.
John, if you asked him would never consider himself as a “Hero for Autism”. He would say he is someone who wants the best for his son and his family….In other words a Dad. John is our “hero for autism” because he has shown us how much is possible with hard work, conviction, and a father’s love. On his fireplace mantle, amidst the family photos, sits a frame that says, “a man moves a mountain by first carrying small stones.” John is moving this mountain, and has inspired those around him to do the same.




